If you are planning to travel to Vietnam or Thailand soon in order to meet girls, you are definitely in for a crazy and exciting adventure. For one, you will be delighted to know that one thing that is common between the women in both Vietnam and Thailand are real epitome of Asian stereotype, with almost similar body features and customs.
Still, like what I have observed, there are some distinct characteristics that each group has. Let us look closer into these factors and see how it can help you in your decision making.
While there are some prostitutes that you can see along the streets of Saigon, in general, girls from Vietnam are not really that interested in hooking up with men just for a short time fling. This means that if they agree to go with you to your hotel or pad, they are actually looking at a future spent with you.
Vietnamese ladies are quite concerned about their personal image and reputation within their society. They do not want to be considered as a bad girl after going around the city with a foreigner. This is because other Vietnamese people actually look down on girls who walk with foreigner ‘men’, even on the streets.
Once I went to Hanoi, and met this cute Vietnamese girl. I didn’t know about this aspect of their culture back then. So I just calmly placed my arms around her when we were walking at the park. I didn’t expect her reaction! It was as if I was there to hurt there. She became really mad, and I had to explain to her that it is actually a form of affection. Turned out that doing so has just made her look bad in public.
This is quite different from the girls in Thailand. In fact, there are some who are quite straightforward with the things that they want. In fact, modern ladies in Thailand are now open to having relationships with Western men. It is quite normal for them to be seen with men in public places.
Going Out on Dates
Dates with a Thai girl would include a dinner, with some drinks, and perhaps hitting a night club. If you are lucky enough, you can get things hot at your accommodation. Then, you can do it all over again the next day with another girl. Simple as that.
However, it is different if you want to date a Vietnamese girl. The dates would typically include dinner and coffee. Afterwards, the girls are expected to get home at 9 pm. If you are interested in the girl, you can arrange for another date for lunch the following day. Then, another meetup for dinner during the weekend. If you are skillful enough, you can get her to enter your room and watch a movie.
This means that most of the features in dating are quite similar with girls from Vietnam and Thailand. However, your skill and patience will be tested with Vietnamese girls. They will not going to give in easily. This is particularly true if they sense that you are just a tourist. You may even have to expect getting asked a lot of questions, including how long you will stay, what your job is, and the reason why you would want to live in Vietnam. This is just a drill in order to get the idea of your nature and purpose of staying in the country. This will also assure them that you are not just passing around.
Personally, I think that Thai girls are generally more open to experiencing short term relationships with foreigners, even though they may have the idea that you might be leaving the country soon. This is not the case with girls in Vietnam, because the moment you show them interest, they will be expecting some form of commitment on your part.
Both Vietnamese girls and Thai girls are equal in this regard. Girls, in general, from both countries may be fluent in the English language, while others speak no English at all. You may also be tired in in asking others to translate to you, therefore, it is best to go for girls who are capable of speaking English.
It has been a personal practice, however, to know at least some basic expressions in the local language. Even though I am not really planning to get serious with any of the girls sooner, I find that knowing at least the basic phrases can help in getting a date.
This factor is quite subjective as everything may all boil down to personal preference. However, personally, I prefer Vietnamese girls as they are curvier compared to Thai girls. The only thing I noticed is that Thai girls tend to love having that fair, white skin. Some even go as far as going through some enhancements in order to achieve their standard in beauty.
Thailand is known for its cosmetic craze. As such, the girls in Thailand end up looking all the same. A lot of them have fake noses, cheek bones as well as chins. It is very common to meet girls wearing eye contacts, teeth diamonds or tattoos. Therefore, I like the natural beauty that Vietnamese ladies have.
How to Meet Them
Two years ago, I planned to visit South East Asia for the first time. I had no idea what to do back then. I just went, enjoyed the vacation, and met girls along the way. However, during my last visit this year, I have taken advantage of some online dating websites, especially those that are location based. There I met some wonderful women whom I had the chance to meet while I was there.
Dating girls while you are either in Vietnam and Thailand can also turn out to be quite tricky. It might be difficult for you to bring girls in your hotel room in Vietnam as most hotels are not guest friendly. On the other hand, the same practice is easier in Thailand. Therefore, if your main goal is to meet girls and enjoy the night away, Thailand is the better option to take.
All in all, both Vietnam and Thailand have really amazing girls. However, just like with other places, you can also meet both good girls, as well as bad girls in these countries. As such, it is really up to you to carefully familiarize the girls that you meet along the way. If you are interested in meeting girls just to have wild fun, partying and other naughty adventures, Thailand is a good place to go. However, if you are looking for a more serious kind of friendship and relationship, Vietnamese girls can also be a good choice.
You can simply sign up with one of those location based online dating sites in order to have a glimpse as to how these women really are. This may be very helpful especially if you are planning to visit either of these countries soon. You can establish an interaction with the girls via these online dating platforms, and if you are lucky enough, meet them up the moment you arrive there.