Over the past 13 months, I’ve made sweet love to over 40+ women strictly using Tinder. Some of these women were stunning and wonderful. The sex was fantastic and they were pleasant people. Some of these women were hideous creatures of the night that I was embarrassed to be seen in public with. I reluctantly thrusted until I orgasmed and then avoided eye contact until they left. Suffice to say, I know a few Tinder tips for men.
While my self-esteem was in vogue due to the vast quality differences I was experiencing, I’ve figured out how to get laid using Tinder on a consistent basis. You can too. It’s really not too difficult. Most men are complete morons on Tinder and in real life. As long as you can just barely stand out above the crowd, even if it’s just on your tippy toes, you can score some cute chicks off Tinder. Thus, great Tinder tips for men are not too complex.
Here are the top 13 Tinder tips for men:
#1: Tinder Plus is worth it
If you really give a damn about getting laid using Tinder – then you need to spend a few dollars a month on Tinder Plus. Tinder is a numbers game and you simply cannot “get you shots up” without Tinder Plus. If Tinder is just something you use everything once in a blue moon – then you won’t need Tinder Plus. However, I doubt you’d be reading this article if you didn’t want to make love to some girls you met off Tinder. You’ll also be able to use Tinder while traveling if you pay for Tinder.
#2: Photos are the only thing that REALLY matters
I’m not going to lie to you – your photos are really all that matters on Tinder. Even if you had the best Tinder “game” known to mankind, you still wouldn’t get laid using tinder if you were ugly as sin. Think about it: you’re using Tinder to sleep with hot girls, and so is she. She is using Tinder to sleep with “hot” guys. Get some great photos of yourself for your Tinder profile and you’ll find Tinder becomes a lot easier for you.
#3: Photo variety is the spice of life
While we are still on the topic of photos, you should be incorporating numerous different types of photos on your profile. One shirtless pic is great. Four shirtless pics makes you look too douchey for human consumption. One pic with a few hot chicks around you can be beneficial (as long as they don’t seem to be your girlfriend). If every picture on your Tinder profile is with a different girl – you won’t be meeting many chicks using Tinder. A few photos of you playing a sport is great. If every photo on your Tinder profile has a ball in it, then you kind of look like a dumb jock. Keep your pictures on your Tinder profile varied and you’ll see the best results.
#4: Pay for professional photos if need be
If you truly are ugly as sin, you may want to invest in professional photos from a lifestyle/fashion/editorial-type of photographer. No Tinder tips for men will help you if you look like ass in photos. This may cost you $300-400, but the investment will be worth it – if you plan to get laid from Tinder. Bring two or three outfits and select at least two different locations. Don’t be afraid to take some shirtless pics with the photographer either. Easy to find these type of photographers on Craigslist or running a quick Google search with your city name in front (ex: lifestyle photographer Denver).
#5: Age matters
If we’re being honest here – Tinder is ass for men over 30, and not in a good way. If I was over 30 (and not in a pussy paradise-type of locale), I would never even download Tinder. The app actively discriminates men over 30 in numerous ways. Plus, I’ve found that most men using the app in the Western world over 30 years of age rarely pull from it. If a man over 30 is consistently pulling from Tinder in the United States – he is living in New York, Miami, or lying about his age through a fake Facebook. You should be lying about your age on Tinder if you’re over 30.
#6: Just write something
The written part of your profile matters, but not nearly as much as we like to think. If you’re ugly as hell, then there’s no Tinder scummy that’s reading your profile anyway. Your written Tinder profile comes into play when she’s on the fence about you. You really just need one or two positive traits to pop up and you’ll be over the hump (and closer to humping). Something as simple as, “Architect. 6’1”/190 lbs.” can work just fine.
#7: “Fuck yes” or don’t waste time on her
The key with Tinder is only wasting time on hoes who you know will look good naked. Three out of every four girls on Tinder will show up to your date looking at least a little worse than her photos. One out of every four Tinder girls you meet will show up looking way hotter than her photos. This means if she’s not a “Fuck yes” to you in her Tinder photos – she might not be attractive to you at all in person. If she is a “Fuck yes” for you in her photos – then even if she shows up looking a little bit worse than here photos you’ll still be happy.
#8: Time is of the essence
If you don’t message her within 24 hours (48 hours if you’re handsome as fuck) of matching, you might as well unmatch her. Out of sight – out of mind. Time is of the essence when using Tinder. Try to spam your matches within the first three hours of matching and you’ll give yourself a much better chance of actually meeting her in person.
#9: K.I.S.S. messaging
Keep you messaging as simple as possible. Spam her your standard “copy and paste” opening message. If she replies, then give her a good chat on the app. Ask her a bit about herself. Ask her what she thinks of Tinder. Ask her what she thinks of guys on Tinder. Flirt. Joke. Just keep it simple and don’t over-think things.
#10: Bounce her quickly
Keep your messaging simple and then get her off the app quickly. You want to be chatting with her through texting or on What’s App. Tinder is informal. When you’re texting her, you’ve immediately become a man she may end up fucking. If you’re still chatting on Tinder, you’re just some chump on Tinder. Build a bit of comfort and then get her off Tinder ASAP.
#11: Invest in messaging
Male attention is an extremely valuable currency for women. You’re going to have to give her some attention if you want to meet her in person. This means you have to put a little time investment into messaging her. It’s just how the Tinder game is being played these days. Don’t be afraid to message back and forth rapidly with a girl you met on Tinder for 20-30 one time. The more comfort you build through texting – the more likely she is to actually meet you.
#12: Any resistance should be ignored
If she says she can’t give out her number – you NEXT her. If she says she doesn’t like to meet strange guys off Tinder too soon – you NEXT her. These chicks are just wasting your time. Don’t play her game. If she’s giving you resistance to normal aspects of the Tinder “lifecycle” then she is wasting your time. Move on.
#13: Travel to exotic locales
My personal favorite Tinder tips for men is to travel more. If you want to get laid more, and not just from using Tinder – you need to pack your bags and hit the road. Traveling to exotic locations where women prefer your look will make you “man candy” on Tinder. Come prepared by using Tinder Plus to let women know you’ll soon be arriving and you’ll have women waiting for you to touch down.
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