Spain and Spanish girls were my first love. Living in Spain and gaming Spanish girls got me started on the journey that would lead me all over Latin America and turn me into El Conquistador.
I lived in Spain for ten months total – eight months in Cadiz and Seville, two months between Valencia and Barcelona. The country has a lot going for it – sociable people, great weather, and tasty food. If I were to cash it all in and decide to ride off into the sunset and live the good life, Spain is where I would probably settle.
However, Spanish girls don’t have a particularly good rep in amongst guys who travel the world collecting flags and notches. Wary of foreigners, chaste and demanding is what guys say about Spanish girls. There is some truth to those labels but in this article, I will explain to you how to do something scores of experienced international Casanovas have failed to do – seduce hot Spanish girls in Spain.
Spanish Girls on the Outside
A Spanish girl’s look will depend on what region she is from. Due to a higher prevalence of Moorish blood in the south of the country (Andalucía) you will see many girls with olive skin and curly jet-black hair in cities such as Granada and Seville and also in surrounding areas. In the North (Galicia, The Basque region, etc.) you will find people who are whiter, paler, taller, etc.
If you are from the US and are used to fat girls, you’ll be happy to see plenty of thin girls walking the streets of Spanish cities. The people of Spain tend to walk a lot, and their diets have remained traditionally Mediterranean with lots of local meats and vegetables. Fast food culture is growing but is still somewhat frowned upon.
Many Spanish girls also smoke, which may or may not contribute to their svelte figures. If kissing a girl who tastes like an ashtray turns you off, you might want to give Spain (and Italy) a miss.
Spanish Girls on the Inside
One of the reasons I enjoy living in Spain is because of the priority the locals place on friendships and social groups. Ironically, this emphasis on community and relationships can make a player’s job much more challenging. Getting a girl drunk and alone is tough when you two are only ever out in the company of her childhood friends and extended family. Getting her to leave the club with you when all of her friends are giving you the evil eye and admonishing her, is almost impossible.
There is an answer to the above problem, however. Because of the state of the Spanish economy and high unemployment rate amongst youths, you’ll find lots of Spanish girls abroad – mainly in England, Poland, and Germany. Getting a one night stand with Spanish girls abroad will be much easier because they are removed from their family and friends.
Cracking the Code of Spanish Women
One of my favorite quotes is: “In the difficulty lies opportunity” and that is the mindset you need to do well with Spanish women. Penetrating close-knit groups of friends and extended family (so you can penetrate) is difficult, but if you pull it off, you’ll have access to some of the most beautiful and traditional women in the world.
Here are a few tips to help you access more Spanish pussy:
- Learn Spanish
Like most Southern European countries, English proficiency is hit and miss. While most Dutch, German and Scandinavian girls will be able to converse in English with you 100% of the time, not speaking the local language in Italy, France, and Spain will cost you relationships. If your Spanish is weak to non-existent, work the Erasmus/international students and English language groupie niches.
While Pickup Spanish is geared towards picking up Latinas, the principles and lines will still work well in Iberian Spanish.
- Be outgoing and make friends
Spain is not a country where you can sit in front of your PC all day then go out on a date with a girl every night. Being a lone wolf and a homebody will hurt you. Guys complain about Spanish girls because they try to bypass the girl’s friends and go straight for the lay. Gain the approval of groups before you isolate your target and go in for the kill.
- Have your own place
Most young people in Spain live with their parents until they finish their education and get settled in a career, so you’d better have your own place if you want to bang. You won’t have this problem with girls who have moved to a big city either for work or school – they usually live with roommates who won’t mind your groans of ecstasy.
Best places to live in Spain
Madrid and Barcelona will give you the most day game targets and more liberal girls, while the rural regions of Andalucía will be where you can find “good” girls to settle down with and wife up. Of course, outside of the two largest cities, you will need to have good Spanish skills. The number one city in Spain for climate and nightlife is, in my opinion, Valencia.
How to Seduce Spanish Girls
Tinder is growing in popularity in Spain, but you need to bring a good physique to the table. Masculine Profiles has some great tips on using Tinder abroad in this book, The Tinder Template. Badoo is less popular but still worth using if you aren’t getting much luck on Tinder.
If I were in either Barcelona or Madrid looking for Latinas, I would buy a Latin American Cupid membership and set my search preferences to Spain. There will only be a few options, but they’re hot.
You will need to open in Spanish to have any chance of hooking girls during the day. A Spanish girl is more likely to give you a rude brush-off to avoid the uncomfortable experience of using her limited English. You can approach during the day in Spanish in a similar manner as you would in Colombia or Peru.
Nightlife starts late in Spain, expect to have dinner at 10 pm and start going out about 1 am. You’ll have more luck talking to girls on the smoking terraces rather than trying to work the dancefloor. Pulling at night is tough in Spain, and you’ll need solid game to do so (again, Spanish helps).
Hacking Night Game in Spain
They key to night game success in Spain lies in pre-drinks and after parties. Weasel your way into the pre-drinking sessions and be around at 4-5 am so you get an invite to the afterparty. Rolling in and out of the clubs with girls will raise your value in the eyes of every other girl in the disco. Being the last man standing at the afterparty while everybody else is leaving and going to sleep will give you the best chance to isolate horny girls.
Spain – A Possible Paradise?
You can judge the pussy paradise potential of a country is by asking if men visit or leave to look for girls. The fact that lots of Spanish men go to either Latin America or FSU for girls tells you something about the difficulty of Spanish women. I’m not going to blow smoke up your ass and tell you that slaying girls in Spain is easier than in Peru, for example. It isn’t. Spanish girls can be hard but I like it for that reason: you are forced to develop game and get used to rejection and hone your persistence. You don’t need game to go to the Philippines to get laid, but you deserve your player badge if you do well in Spain.
Same night lays are difficult to pull off in Spain, so a better strategy is to play the long game and date 4 or 5 girls at the same time. Eat some Spanish ham, enjoy the weather, make some local friends, improve your Spanish and you might find yourself disagreeing with all the guys who say Spanish girls are difficult.