While wet dreams are great and all…Giving up masturbation and online dating has me gravely concerned about where my orgasms will come from in November…
If you don’t know about #NoNothingNovember, check it out Kid Strangelove’s post here to get the inside scoop.
Initially, I was going to give up a few smaller things that I knew would be easy. I could say I would go the gym 6 days a week, but I already do that. It would not be too difficult. However, Goldmund decided to lightly call me out on Twitter and that was all it took…
Here are the vices I am giving up and the goals I hope to achieve in November:
No Online Dating
This will not be easy for me. I enjoy grabbing a handful of numbers in every city I visit before I even arrive. There is nothing like having a woman begging to meet you before you have ever stepped foot in her city. However, like all good things in life moderation is needed.
I have become an online dating addict to a certain extent. I still actively approach at night and occasionally during the day, but my preferred method of getting women is through online dating. This will change in November.
I will give myself two caveats: Tinder is still acceptable. I cannot go cold turkey here and the quality on Tinder where I am is incredible. As well, if a girl I am already interacting with continues to respond I can continue gaming her to get her number
Still, no more spamming every cute chick in a 25 miles radius with a scripted opener. No more trying to get with girls using:
I have deleted the apps on my phone to resist the temptation to spam. This will be difficult and I will be updating my progress weekly. I hope to improve my day game as a result of giving up online dating for November.
I am traveling and I enjoy drinking while on the road. I refuse to give up alcohol as it is an integral part of my current lifestyle. However, with alcoholism looming in the near future I need to focus on my health in some manner.
Thus, I will not drink any beer during #NoNothingNovember whatsoever. Actually, I will not drink a majority of alcohol in November. The only alcoholic beverages I will allow myself to consume in November are:
- Vodka & Soda w/ a Lime
- Red Wine
- Rum & Water w/ a Lime
While alcohol is not healthy, the above drinks are somewhat healthy when compared to Beer, Red Bull & Vodka, Jack & Coke, and most other drinks.
This one is easy for me as I rarely if ever masturbate. Actually, I’ve only masturbated in the last three months when 1 of 3 things happen:
- A girl sends me nudes
- I’m sick
- I’m hungover
Still, I plan on eliminating those instances of jerking off as well. Not too worried about this one except for the fact that I will not be dating online…
Here are a few more goals for #NoNothingNovember that dropping my vices should help to achieve:
One Approach Before Noon Everyday
I usually have great endorphins flowing in the morning as I work out in the mornings. As well, there are two malls within walking distance to my house. I have no excuse to not do an approach or two before or after my morning workout every day.
I want to improve my day game abilities drastically and this goal certainly should help with that.
One caveat is that I do not workout on Sundays and usually stay out late Saturdays. So I will be lenient with myself on Sundays.
Three Blog Posts Per Week
I will not be lenient with myself on this goal whatsoever. My traffic has almost tripled in the past two months and I want to keep the momentum going. I will be posting three times a week in November.
I will attempt to stay on a M-W-F posting schedule, but I am more concerned with getting three new pieces of content out each and every week.
Best of Luck To All #NoNothingNovember Participants
I look forward to keeping up-to-date with everyones progress this month. Best of luck to you all! Let’s change ourselves for the better in November.