How to Talk to Women online
After last weeks post about the wrong ways of How to Talk to Women online, the next step is figuring out the types of messages that women respond to.
So, what types of opening messages actually work? What type of opening messages will have girls responding to you consistently? Messages girl in a way that actually get responses from women.
Not only do these type messages get consistent results, they are efficient with a man’s time, which should be his most valuable resource. The two best types of online dating opening messages are:
How to Talk to Women, Copy & Paste :
Some will argue and say a message that clearly has been ‘copy & pasted’ to girls is not the way to go when dating online.
They will say girls can clearly tell they are ‘copy & pasted’ messages. They will say the girls will have already gotten the same message before and therefore, will not respond to yours.
If these are there rebuttals, they are not using ‘copy & paste’ messages correctly.
See if you use ‘copy & paste’ messages that every other guy on the block has used, you will not get any results.
As well, if a message seems completely copied and pasted, then you need to find a new message to spam out. That is not how to use ‘copy & paste’ messages. Ok, but why would you use them?
Well, there are two reasons ‘copy & paste’ messages are a personal favorite when I am messaging girls online.
First, it is the most time efficient method of online dating for men. Hell, it is the most time efficient form of dating physically possible.
With a good ‘copy & paste” opening message, you can be in conversations with 5-10 girls online within the first 15 minutes you log on.
How to Talk to Women Tips and Tricks
Another reason ‘copy & paste’ messages are a great way to open online is because of the ironic mindset of women dating online. See, if a woman knows you crafted a messaged based upon something in her profile, she knows you read her profile.
Thus, she knows you invested time into her before you even had any type interaction with her. This is a turn off for her. By, simply sticking with ‘copy & paste’ messages, you avoid another obstacle to turning her off.
Template Format Messages to for How to Talk to Women,
The benefit of using a template format message instead of a copy & paste message is that a man may be able to secure dates with women above his attractiveness level using a template.
The template gives women the idea that a man viewed and read her profile, yet did not invest too much time in his initial message.
This is only true if done correctly.
To correctly send template format message, one first must have a template to follow (more on this coming in the future).
Then the man simply reads a girls profile and fills in the blank parts of his template with the information he gathered from her profile.
While a template format message may be great to use in some situations online, it also takes more time than sending a copy & paste message.
Still, a man with a solid template can send 10-15 messages to pretty girls in 20-30 minutes and expect a reasonably high response rate.
This article we did on dating a successful woman
7 Online Dating First " How to Talk to Women " Hits That Get Responses:
Other guys are sending her lame first messages, was your weekend? and I’m John. That’s good for you, it lets you shine by being interesting, creative.
Get a little Personal
Get her to share something about herself, this instantly, makes her feel great. The better she feels about talking to you, your chances are better to get a date.
Get her mouth watering
Delicious. Chocolate, cheesecake, ala mode…, beach, travel, martini, white wine, who wouldn’t want to keep reading?
Talk about something from her profile, or something women love to do
Travel makes an awesome subject for a first message because it’s something most women enjoy doing, or at least enjoy dreaming about. And who doesn’t like to at least think they have a great sense of adventure?
Make her Laugh, How to Talk to Women
Funny online dating messages get responses because women naturally find guys with a sense of humor attractive. Tests have proven that women are very attracted to men that can make them laugh
The truth about Copy & Paste Messages
You need to message more girls, Statistically speaking, the more messages you get out the better. You must send 114 messages to get one reply – it takes a ton of time.
Copy and paste and message them all, weed out the ones you aren't interested in out of the ones that respond.
You Will Meet More Hot Girls – Fast!
Here’s what all 7 of these first message examples have in common:
- They instantly pique her curiosity. If she doesn’t even want to keep reading, why would she bother responding?
- They set you apart from the crowd. Remember, if she’s getting tons of messages from guys just like you. You’ve got to out-message them every time.
- They ask her a question. You need to make it as easy as possible for her to respond, and controlling the conversation is a simple way to do it.
Paired Life wrote:
How to Talk to a Girl Online: Proven Openers
Top Tips for Starting Conversations with Girls Online
This section will give some general guidelines for starting real conversations with women online for sites like OKCupid, POF, eHarmony. It's a little more than just trying to pick them up. Below you'll also find some more approaches and examples both of what to do and what not to do.
- Don't say the first thing that jumps into your head. So . . .
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