Having spent close to 14 months in Mexico, I know a thing or two about how to seduce Mexican girls. Firstly, the country has many other things going for it besides girls. The food is incredible; Mexican food in the US is entirely different to the food the other side of The Rio Grande. The friendliness of the people is one of its biggest charms. I believe Mexicans are on par with Colombians and Thais for friendliness. Check out this article to meet some beautiful Mexican girls or you can just go directly to my favorite place to meet Mexican girls here.
**My buddy, El Conquistador, wrote this article about Mexican women. His course, Pickup Spanish, was created for any guy looking for lovin’ south of the border. Highly recommended.
Let’s get the crime issue out of the way. Don’t pay any attention to the media sensationalism about drug cartels and violence. Those incidents are gang related crimes and concentrated near the border with the US – pleases I recommend you don’t go. I spent my time in Mexico in two cities; Mexico City (DF as locals call it) and Guadalajara. In this article I will make city specific recommendation for one of those cities but I will mostly focus Mexican girls. Vamos.
What are Mexican girls like?
Let’s start with the extremes at both ends of the spectrum. In southern parts of the country, such as Oaxaca, the people will tend to be darker and more indigenous-looking. In the northern states such as Sonora and Chihuahua, the people will be whiter. But this is not a hard and fast rule. You’ll find dark-skinned girls in the north as well. I’m just letting you so you can decide based on your own personal preferences.
The indigenous girls will look like the ones you’ll come across in Peru, Ecuador and Bolivia. Shorter, darker skinned, straight black hair and square bodies. This doesn’t necessarily make them unattractive. There are many white guys who like this skin tone and exotic features – eye of the beholder and all that. At the other end of the scale, you will find Mexican girls that look like they belong on the streets of Madrid or Barcelona. Taller, tanned or white skin and Spanish looking. And then there are the girls in between these two extremes – this is the group I go for, and the majority of Mexican girls are in this last group.
Where to live?
All guys who are new to Mexico should start in either Mexico City or Guadalajara. These two cities have the most options for online game and they have the widest variety of girls. The coast are too “gringo’d out” and the north of the country (with the exception of Monterrey) is too “kidnappy” for my liking.
In Mexico City, I lived in Tlalpan. This area has lots of opportunities for daygame and is reasonably inexpensive. Try to get a place near a subway stop so girls can get to your dates easily. The subway in Mexico City, unlike London for example, is super easy to navigate – even with zero Spanish. Condesa is another great neighborhood to check out.
Final note: Mexico City is a huge, sprawling metropolis so bear that in mind when you meet a girls online and she says that she lives on the outskirts. Delete her number and move on. Traffic is so bad at certain times so you’ll have to have to do too much scheduling to see her.
Easy or difficult girls?
Mexican girls are not on the easiness level of Peru, for example, but you’ll get more play than if you were in Spain or Argentina. Don’t expect to have a harem or bang 5-7 girls a week (like Masculine Profiles did in the Dominican Republic). But don’t expect too little either. Don’t be satisfied with a peck on the cheek after your third date with a Mexicana. If you approach some cuties during the day and put your time in on dating apps, you’ll put up some respectable numbers.
Mexico City is a great place for daygamers. There are so many people walking around that you will have lots of targets and nobody pay any attention to what you are doing. Daygame at these areas in Mexico City:
- Centro Historico in DF is always a good bet
- El Palacio on Durango is another good mall
- Cuidad Universitaria is a huge campus with around 1/4 of a million students
In comparing the two main cities, I’ve always found Guadalajara girls to be friendlier and the girls in Mexico City. This isn’t a problem in the capital, however, because there are many out during the day, you’ll find another one in less than a minute.
How much Spanish do you need to know?
I get asked this a lot by guys who are thinking of visiting Latin America. I always answer with a fitness analogy. Does being in great shape help when it comes to attracting women? Yes. Is it absolutely necessary? No. You can still get girls being a fat slob. Still, improving all aspects of your life (being in shape, improving your finances, and sharpening your language skills) will increase the quality of the girls you date. Living in Latin America and not being able to speak Spanish (not being willing to learn) = low value.
If I were learning Spanish from scratch today I would get Madrigal’s Magical Key to Spanish by Margarita Madrigal. If you already have the basics down and want to flirt with and game girls in Spanish then Pickup Spanish will suit your needs.
Tinder in Guadalajara and Mexico City will serve you well. You’ll be swiping till your thumbs drop off. The other website to use is Mexcian Cupid or Latin American Cupid. If you are on a budget and trying to decide between both then do the following:
- Create a profile on both sites (free)
- Set your filters (location, age, photo, bust size, etc. )
- Run an identical search on both sites (remember this is a controlled experiment)
- Compare the results side by side. Whichever site has the highest number of Mexican girls according to your preferences – pay the $30 for that site.
You could try your luck on Badoo and OkCupid, but the former has been getting spammy and the latter tends to have a lot of internet fatties on it. Mexican Cupid and Tinder are your staple tools and the only ones you’ll need.
Mexican chicks go out in mixed groups in Mexico so getting some local friends (who can introduce you) will make a huge difference in your results. If you don’t have a social circle there, there are plenty of daygame and online opportunities so don’t get too discouraged about nightgame. In Mexico City, Polanco has many upscale nightclubs so you should check out Avenida Presidente Masaryk.
How to Hit on Mexican Girls
Mexican Girls are like the other latinas – they want a man’s man. What I mean by that is they want someone who is strong, sexy, aggressive, can take care of himself, and can dance. Seriously, if you can salsa really well at a bar then almost any girl is yours. When I first arrived I could not salsa for the life of me and I was able to get laid a little bit because they thought it was cute.
However, after that trip I decided to take some salsa lessons because I knew I HAD to come back. The sex in Mexico was just so good. Mexican women are curvy and they really know how to ride on top well so you can easily sit back and enjoy the view.
So by the time I went to my 2nd trip to Mexico I was already pretty fluent in salsa. I could dance and keep a rhythm even though I still wasn’t the best. However, the difference was night and day. The Mexican chicas loved that a white dude from the states could dance and keep up. I wasn’t an all star like I said but it was definitely easy to have sex with Mexican women a LOT easier.
So, the break down is:
1) Find a lively bar
2) Find a latina and approach
3)Talk to her and buy her a drink
4) Ask her to dance (great if you know how to dance, if not just smile a lot and try to look cute without shame)
5) Buy her another drink or two – move in sometime at this point
6) Take her home and she’s yours
Like I mentioned before, Mexican girls aren’t the easiest latinas, but if you follow this formula it’s pretty easy to get laid in Mexico.
Mexican Girls – Overall
This post will give you all you need to get started seducing Mexican women. Remember to stick to the two cities I recommend, take advantage of the foot traffic to daygame, and go easy on the spicy taco sauce.