This is a guest post about Bali girls is from Rush Fresh.
You landed in Denpasar ready to surf, scuba dive, or just enjoy the beautiful beaches and nature of Bali. You will have met plenty of tourists like yourself from Australia and Sweden, but you’re ready to try some of the local flavours. Interestingly enough, you didn’t see too many Bali girls lying in the sand and splashing in the ocean. You went out to the discos and bars at night with the same results, nothing but foreigners getting sloshed off of the cheap booze and some even tripping from magic mushrooms offered at every street corner. No real Bali girls. Asian Dating is a website that can help in this part of the world go to Indonesia then select Bali.
You’re disappointed and have no idea what to do, but can’t leave without getting a full taste of what the island has to offer. Here’s what you should know: First of all, Bali girls are shorter than those in the West. Although shapes vary, it’s not surprising to see disproportionately large breasts and butts on someone their size. They may not come close to Colombian women in comparison, but you’ll be pleasantly surprised by what’s hiding under that shirt and tight jeans. The skin tone of women in this region varies from darker to lighter shades, but most meet in the middle with a honey-caramel/ hazelnut colour. I promise they’ll be plenty of beautiful Bali girls. The Tinder Template is our book that can really help you find girls.
Petit bodies, but cute faces are a little harder to come by. Once in a while, you’ll encounter the top echelon Bali girls – absolute stunners with light pale skin (usually from upper class). They’ll be almost impossible to date casually as a tourist, one has to be an expat working or living in Bali for a prolonged period of time and have an air-tight game. Perhaps one of the most pleasant qualities of Bali girls is that they generally have beautiful smiles and a positive attitude. Even though they are very feminine, sweet, and smiley – there is a hint of crazy in the mix, especially when dating and dealing with foreigners.
Now that you know what Bali girls are like, you’re intrigued and wouldn’t mind a little ‘sweet and crazy’ in your life, so how do you find them? One thing that’s crucial to understand is that Balinese women LOVE shopping; they’ll go to the malls all the time, whether actually buying something or just window shopping. Therefore, for day game hitting up the malls is one of your best bets. The girls will often be in a group of two or more, but you’ll find that works to your advantage since they’ll be less distrusting of foreigners than they would be one-on-one.
On a side note, although distrust for tourists exists and comes from bad past experiences or stories, it doesn’t stop the local Bali girls from being drawn to lighter skin from foreign lands. As in most places around the world, WhatsApp is massively popular and should be sufficient to grab some digits.
Paying an extra $5-$10 per night for a place with a swimming pool is a good investment, and also, something that can be used as bait or reason to come back to the crib in the future. It’s rare to pull Bali girls back right away from day gaming, but arranging to meet for drinks later shouldn’t be too difficult. Also important to note that the girls will expect you to pay since the local salaries are quite small, this might help you avoid any awkward situation when the bill comes. International Cupid can find Bali girls, go to Indonesia, then select Bali, you can use this site to find girls while still in your native country and meet them when you get there.
As for night game, the clubbing scene in Bali is one of the best in the region. There is large selection of Bali girls bars and clubs, ranging from cheap spots to pre-drink to ultra-chic beach clubs and resorts. You are more likely to meet local Bali girls in places that don’t charge an entrance fee, as even $10 can be too much for them. Once again you may end up paying for drinks, just make sure not to be the sucker buying rounds for her whole groups of friends all night. You may also encounter some resistance when trying to extract, but proper screening will save you a lot of trouble.
The higher end clubs with entrance fees will have significantly better quality, with the Bali girls looking their best in high heels and tiny skirts. Some will be straightforward and approach foreigners first – expect to be buying the drinks as always. Be wary as some of them may be prostitutes, which is especially prevalent in the night scene in Kuta. Interestingly enough, the good looking local girls at these high-end clubs may not be hookers, but will still try to get money out of you.
It’s weird and doesn’t always make sense, but you’ll know they’re not hookers when you end up closing the deal anyway with solid game and not having them mention money again. With entrance fees and drinks at such venues one can expect to spend at least $20-$30 in a night; for the locals that can be the equivalent of a week’s salary, so the Bali girls try to recoup some of their costs even though they still go out wanting to genuinely meet foreigners. If the night is not a success, one can always resort to paying for sexual services as little as $50(P.S.: NOT recommended by editor), although it’s not recommended as these Bali girls are usually controlled by gangs.
For those that want to put minimal effort in dating Bali girls, Tinder is also an option (shameless plug here). It’s especially popular among locals looking to meet foreign guys, so the screening process becomes that much easier. One of the first questions you may encounter is about the length of your stay. Since local Bali girls prefer dating llong-term(perhaps hoping that a wealthy foreigner will get them out of poverty), it is best to give an honest answer if visiting for a while. Or you can give an open-ended response with a glimmer of hope. English proficiency of girls on Tinder may not be as good as the ones at clubs and bars among the tourists, but most will know enough to hold a conversation.
Dating Bali Girls
Conversion on the first date may also be more difficult, but meeting for a drink or two beforehand in a public place will ease a lot of the tension. Once in a while, you’ll encounter girls who’ll come over and get right into it, without even needing any alcohol. It’s crucial to find out the logistics so if the girl isn’t driving or lives within walking distance, offer to meet her outside and pay for the cab –it will eliminate more than half of the flakes.
On the flip side from what’s become common in the Western world, Bali girls don’t seem to have mastered the art of the selfie yet. Hence, you may be pleasantly surprised when they turn out better in person than they did in pictures. At the very least, you’ll get exactly what you were expecting from her pictures. It’s also quite common to keep getting messages from Tinder girls after they’ve put out, hoping to meet again and potentially date long term.
If honesty is your policy and you admit to only be looking for a one time deal, you’re likely to experience the crazy side of Bali girls mentioned earlier. This includes non-stop messaging, phone calls, and unpleasant slurs comparing you to all the other shameless tourists, followed by sweet and innocent pleas for another date.
Bali Girls Overall
Overall, day gaming at malls and Tinder among locals are both solid and relatively effortless options. The top class women are better found in high-end venues. Be wary of girls for hire, but learn to distinguish them from good looking locals simply trying to recover their expenses for the night – as one will give you a price up front while the other may ask for some money after the deal is sealed.
Solid frame and good game will get you a long way; even if you get no luck with locals, there are plenty of tourist girls looking for some fun away from the judgements of their friends back home. In any case, getting laid in Bali shouldn’t be tough even for the average guy although trying the local flavours is highly recommended, and dealing with a little bit of crazy is well worth it to experience the sweet and feminine.
Respect the family of Bali girls and understand her culture
This is probably the most important one of the five. An Indonesian woman will have two great loves in her life and you will never supersede them. Your Indonesian partner will also take the time to teach you what your role is with her family and her culture. Asian Dating is a website that can help in this part of the world go to Indonesia then select Bali. And if you are open to learning you will understand that they are reasonable and simple. You may be expected to offer some type of financial support to her family if it is needed, but if she is honest this will only be when it is needed. It is also wise to put in place boundaries, but if you are also honest about what you can afford. Then what she asks for will never be beyond your means. You will also be expected to give her the freedom to practice her traditions and at certain times to be available to join her on these occasions. Basically, you will be asked to meet the family and to join in some celebrations. This is what a woman from your own country would expect within a relationship. And I would suggest that you go along and enjoy it, you might just have fun.
If you do these things your Indonesian girlfriend she will reward you with everything a relationship with an Indonesian woman has to offer. Indonesian women can be very caring, loving, supporting and fun to be around. The rewards of dating an Indonesian woman will far out way the small sacrifices you may be asked to make.
Watch your phone because the Bali girls will be watching it
If you get the chance watch an Indonesian woman use her phone. You will then notice that her fingers swipe the screen so fast that they become a blur. You should also have no doubt that this woman is reading and digesting information faster than any supercomputer. Now imagine this same woman with your phone in her hands and you may get my point. Indonesian women view an unattended phone as an invitation, they will pick it up and they will look. Never leave your phone where she can get her hands on it if you have something to hide. They are also able to remember every call and text made from the phone in a matter of seconds.
Don’t eat her food, you can’t handle spice that Bali girls can
You may be sitting at a restaurant with your Indonesian girlfriend and she may offer you a taste of her food. And then you may think it will hurt her feelings or be unmanly if you refuse to take a bite. Now take a look in your girlfriend’s eyes and ask yourself see if you can see a glint that you haven’t noticed before. That glint is female Indonesian cruelty and she would like nothing more than to watch your head explode. Remember your Bali girls have been eating hot food since the day she was born. And have no doubt that the mother’s milk she was weaned on was laced with the hottest chillies available in Indonesia. It doesn’t matter how good you are at eating spicy food you cannot compete with her taste buds. It is also a well-known fact that you can strip paint with an Indonesian women’s food. The food may look tasty but it is lethal and it will kill you. The best thing to do is to politely refuse the taste and then hope she doesn’t offer again.