How to Get Laid on Instagram

*Quick note: This article is named "How to get laid on Instagram" for SEO purposes. It is more of a guide on meeting up with girls from Instagram. If you sleep with them will be determined by your "date game" just like most forms of online dating. However, instagram is still great to use if you want to get laid more.

Instagram may have the highest percentage of hot chicks online outside of Facebook. While certainly not a dating site, there are thirsty girls on Instagram looking for a good time. And no dudes are using Instagram to get laid…

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I searched “how to get laid on Instagram” and couldn’t find a single article on the topic. A few forums have touched on the topic, but no one has been able to nail down a strategy as of yet.

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This strategy has worked for me multiple times already. So without further ado, here is how to get laid on Instagram:

Have a Cool Profile

No post on “how to get laid on Instagram” would be truthful without placing importance on your profile…

The only way to get laid on Instagram is to have a cool profile filled with great photos. If you do not have a profile that portrays you as a fun, cool, good looking, and in-shape guy then you will struggle on Instagram.

There is some cross over in photo selection on Instagram between great photos for your online dating profile and great photos on Instagram. While you may only have 2-6 photos on your online dating profile you may have 100’s of photos on your Instagram profile. So you will have a wide variety of photo types to choose from.

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You should focus on posting pictures you have taken. Avoid reposting or posting memes. People want to see your life on Instagram not a meme or a photo you stole. These pictures have been hits for me:

  • Pictures with a dog in it
  • Anything to do with a sunset, mountain, or beach
  • Anything active (gym, surfing, basketball, etc.)
  • Pictures with a mixed group of friends
  • Anything related to travel

You’ll have to be posting frequently so each and every picture of you does not have to be “Tinder profile pic” worthy. Just remember to focus on showing attractive traits of your lifestyle in each and every picture.

*Quick tip: You can get away with some pretty douchebag type photos and videos on Instagram due to the number of bodybuilders and fitness people using the app. Use this to you advantage and show off your body. Avoid the uber-douche #flexfriday crowd and flexing mirror selfies are still a no, but try things out. You can post pictures of you flexing at the beach, in the gym doing a lift, and more. Posting a video of you doing a lift like pull-ups or abs without a shirt on in the gym has worked well.

Learn to Caption

Once you begin to post photos, you’ll need to caption each and every photo you post. Captions are an easy way to show your personality and possibly make a girl laugh. You don’t need to write a full paragraph, but a sentence or two on each post will suffice.

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Add Hashtags

You will want to add hashtags to each of your posts on Instagram. Some people adds 10-20 hashtags, but I found this to be counterproductive. I’ve found you get better responses on your photos if you us 2-5 relevant hashtags.

You can use the typical hashtags or you can create a humorous one that relates to your photo. Always place the location of your photo in your hashtag so girls will know where you are.

Like Hashtags

This is how you begin to get more followers, likes, and comments on your photos. Each day spend 10-15 minutes mindlessly liking every photo under a certain hashtag. Depending on your most recent post, you should try and like similar hashtags.

I focus on liking hashtags in my current location. By liking hashtags of the city or country you are in, you will begin to interact with a number of women in that area. Women always look at profiles of random men who like their photos.

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Follow Back

After you continually like a number of photos under certain hashtags you will begin to add followers. Look at each and every person that follow you and if they are cool you should add them, no matter if it’s a man or woman.

Get 300+ Followers

The more followers you get the better, but 300 is around the bare minimum before you should try to run Instagram game. 300 followers will give you a decent amount of social proof.

Also, don’t worry about your follower ratio too much. While you should have more followers than people you are following, being close to a 1:1 ratio is not a bad thing.

Post 3-5 Times Per Week

You must be active on Instagram to run Instagram game. Posting 3-5 times is more than enough. Some people post everyday, but I find this far too time consuming. I prefer to post 3-5 quality images or videos over the course of the week than posting a lackluster post just to post.

Your posts should place you in an attractive light in some manner as discussed previously. Don’t be afraid to post something a bit out there every once in awhile. These type of photos give women a chance to comment more so.

Waiting Game

As your followers increase, you continue posting, and you continue liking others photos in your area people will begin to occasionally comment on your posts. You will rarely know these people.

Wait until a cute chick comments on your post. Check her profile and if she is cute, cool, and available the game has begun…

Direct Message Her

Once a chick you are interested in comments on one of your posts, it is time to send her a direct message. I have had success with two types of direct message openers on Instagram.

You have to send a photo with your initial message on Instagram and there are two types to send: a meme or a follow up. If you have a photo that plays off the photo she commented on, you can send her this photo with something regarding what she commented on as the caption.

An example would be if she commented on a place you traveled to possibly saying she had been there too. Direct message her another photo from that place that is not on Instagram. Make the caption something regarding the location and how much you enjoyed visiting there.

If you don’t have a follow up photo for the photo she commented on, try sending her a funny meme. My favorite memes to direct message on Instagram have to do with nightlife and location. I send something like this to girls who comment on my photos over the weekend:

How to get laid on Instagram

Small Talk

As Instagram is not a “dating site” per se, you will want to create more small talk than you would on an online dating website. Talk about your location, nightlife, the weekend…anything goes. 

As you are not on a dating site, you don’t want to “scare the cat” so to speak. However, you do not need too much “game” on Instagram. Nobody is direct messaging these chicks, so you already stand out by doing so.

As you are not on a dating site, you don’t want to “scare the cat” so to speak. However, you do not need too much “game” on Instagram. Nobody is direct messaging these chicks, so you already stand out by doing so.

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Casual Suggestion

After making small talk in her DM’s for a bit, you’ll want to set up a date. The best way I’ve found is to casually suggest a meeting for drinks. Something like:

“Anyway, would you wanna grab drinks sometime? I’d like to pick your brain a bit more about…”


“Well, we should grab drinks sometime if your game. If not, no worries.”

No need to come on strong, just throw out a suggestion. I have not been turned down yet with this method after having a conversation of 10-15 messages.

That’s It

Then exchange numbers or What’s App and go from there. After that it’s standard date game and escalation….

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How to get Laid on Instagram

Instagram game seems to be an untapped resource of girls looking for male attention and more. While you will stumble upon vapid, attention whores from time to time, there are girls who will have sex with you quickly after exchanging numbers on Instagram.

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