Learning how to effective message women is just ONE of the many topics that you can use to get laid that I cover in the book here.
Meeting girls can be great over the internet or on apps, but sometimes it’s hard sending them good opening lines for online dating. If you’re using Tinder then I suggest you check out these tips on opening lines for Tinder and the best way to message girls on Tinder.
Here is a list of some of the best online dating opening messages I have used.
All these openers have gotten responses for me personally and for many of my clients. I tried to give credit where credit is due.
If anybody has other openers that work well for them online, post them in the comments. There are openers for a variety of different situations and types of girls.
Here are the best online dating opening messages:
No investment opener:
Laid back, low investment opener (Found here):
“You seem cool. What are you up to?”
Opener that works well for good looking men, especially on Tinder:
“Sweet baby Jesus! Tell your parents good job ;)”
Great opener for party girls (Found here):
“Are you one of those girls who takes forever to do her hair and make up, or does it just look that way?”
When you are a mutual match with a chick:
“Looks like we both at least have one thing going for us…great taste ha”
If she likes you in some way online, this is a cocky opener:
“Clearly you have great taste lol what’s up”
Flirty opener for girls who look somewhat slutty (Found here):
“Oh boy… You look like trouble!”
Cocky opener that works well for good looking men (Found here):
“After you read my profile…you’ll find no reason for us to not want to get a drink together :)”
Another great opener for playful women (Found here):
“Hey I was thinking of robbing a bank, driving off a cliff, faking my own death (SCUBA in the car), you down?”
Works well on late-twenties women:
“If you don’t reply you are legally obligated to get a cat. It’s in the fine print.”
Use on women who are highly attractive, not on 7’s:
“Whoaaa you’re almost as attractive as me”
Teasing opener that works well on women feeling the biological clock tick:
“Well, you seem like a potentially fun and interesting girl. But how do I know you’re not actually a crazy cat lady who stays in all weekend to watch Bravo 24/7? Early nights in bed before 9pm aside, what is your ideal weekend like? ;)”
Easy template opener that you can customize to her profile:
“+10 for enjoying life and not looking like a stiff
+5 for quality over quantity
-3 for being an Virgo, nothing but trouble ;)”
Easy opener to play off your strengths. Substitute your strongest attributes:
“Are you into guys who are tall, dark, and handsome?”
Great opener for younger, playful girls (Found here):
“I’m looking for an accomplice to rob a bank. You look like trouble. You down? PS: <insert snippet about her profile you found interesting>”
Easy way to tease her about one of her likes:
“Hey you seem cool, but the Cowboys…really?”
When traveling (Found here):
“Hey I’m new in town”
When she views your profile, but doesn’t say hi:
“Ha too shy to leave a message?”
“LL who’s the greatest dancer of all time replies “VERY Selectively”? Hmmm, I just read over your profile and have NO IDEA why you’re this picky!
Haha, actually I wanted to make sure you have a good sense of humor and don’t take yourself too seriously. 🙂
Anyway, You seem pretty adventurous, so tell me this… if you could grab your bags and go on a spontaneous South American adventure, what experiences would be a Must before you’d even think about going home?”
If you liked some of these online dating opening lines then let us know in the comments! Honestly, we’ve been using some of these for years and they’re all pretty great. Of course we have our favorites as well!