Best Cities to Meet Filipinas (meet Filipino women)

It is not a secret to anybody that the Philippines is a paradise. I believe it is not just about the place in itself, but also the women here, this article is about how to meet Filipino women. For this very reason, the Philippines is one of the most popular Southeast Asian countries for men who want to meet Asian girls for a little bit of fun.

Personally, I like to use FilipinoCupid to meet women since it not only makes it easier to meet them, but they also tend to have really good English. You can find our Filipino Cupid review here. Tinder will also be a great help here, use our Tinder Template, or Traveling with Tinder as traveling buddies to get you LAID.

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Where to Go to meet Filipino women?

When you think of how to meet Filipino women, the first thing that probably enters your mind is meeting with hookers, bar girls, and those who call themselves as freelancers in the sex trade. Nightlife spots are present in almost big cities in the Philippines.

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However, if you want other options aside from the ways to meet Filipino women mentioned above, there are also other options for you. The Philippines is made up of more than 7000 islands, after all. While you can generally visit all the cities and meet gorgeous ladies, there are just some cities that actually stand out from the rest.

Makati City

Makati is a big, metropolitan city. It is located within the Metro Manila boundaries. As such, you can expect to see a lot of places where you can possibly meet Filipino women. All you have to do is to check out some local cafes and go out at night. There are bars and clubs in the area where you can find both hookers and party goers.

It is generally easier to approach girls in these places because the girls who frequent here (except for the hookers) are also those who are mostly interested in meeting new people.

One thing to note, however, is that Makati has a higher crime. However, this is just something that is expected in a major city with a bustling population. Women in bigger cities such as Makati are typically pretty liberal. They like to meet foreign men and are open minded when it comes to activities... if you know what I mean. Here are great ways to meet Filipino women.

Cebu City

*All about the day game* to meet Filipino women

Cebu is located in the middle part of the country. Therefore, if you are headed to Manila, you have to take another flight in order to reach this city. While still a metropolitan city, it is more comfortable to stay in compared to Manila. It is also a good tourist destination as there are a lot of things that you can see and activities that can be done here. A great place to meet Filipino women.

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You can enjoy a lot of beaches here, with beautiful white sand that you can enjoy under the heat of the sun. Along with that, you also have good opportunities to meet Filipino women at the beach. Filipino women aren't as conservative as Vietnamese women and are much more approachable (that, and they have better English).

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Most Filipino girls don't have too much meat which is okay for me, but I personally like my girls with some decently sized knockers. A nice ass is good too, but not as big of a bonus as a well-sized rack. An advantage of hitting on girls at the beach is I get some sort of idea what everything looks like before I get them naked!

Also, approaching during the day may throw them off since day game is so rare for women to experience. I've found that my beach game tends to work well - typically resulting in hanging out at night later and I've noticed these girls "convert" well into my bed.

You may want to approach local tourists or even women who are working in one of the resorts and beaches in the city. They're not used to being hit on like workers in the US since Filipino men are a lot more passive so yes, approaching during the day will result in success! It's A great way to meet Filipino women.

Aside from being a paradise for partying and beach adventures, Cebu is also home to trustworthy, nice and sweet Filipinas. Not only can they be found in local bars and nightlife spots, but also these girls can be found in malls, as well as other particular places such as Mango Avenue, a street in the city where there are a lot of restaurants, bustling at night time (think almost like downtown).

Iloilo City

This city is located on an island called Panay. There is an international airport in this city, so you can easily catch a flight to Iloilo anytime. It offers a good combination of an urban and rural living, giving you a good taste of Filipino city life and island life in one package.

Here, you can experience a way to meet Filipino women of the Timid variety, most of them closely attached to their family. Therefore, it is very important to be always on your toes when meeting these girls here. Unlike city girls, girls in rural areas are more of the traditional type, which appreciates respect from the men they meet.

Iloilo is known to be home to sweet ladies, and their accents are pretty cute. Of course, you may not notice it when they speak in English since most people refer to their Hiligaynon language .

Fortunately, their English is pretty good which is good news for you. Most women here are decently in English, which means that you will not have a hard time communicating with them. It's a lot better than speaking to girls in Thailand and Vietnam.

Meet Filipino women who are smart and pretty in Tarlac City

Tarlac is more of a mountainous region. However, all the roads are pretty accessible by local transportation, so you will not really have a hard time reaching this area. This city has a lot of things to see, some forests that you can explore, as well as beaches that you can enjoy.

Reviews among foreign men who have visited this part of the Philippines also say that they found some incredibly smart-witted and beautiful women here. If you are looking for a place to visit that is out of the vicinity of a bigger city life, Tarlac is a good option. Just like other rural cities, you can expect to meet women who are more conservative compared to those who live in big cities.

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With that in mind, the nut might be harder to crack here. However, the women here are definitely head jerkers so if you successfully find one you'll see that it is WELL worth it.

There are a lot of resorts in Tarlac, making it a good place to relax during your vacation. Even if you just focus on a good time and tend to naturally meet people you'll probably find yourself getting some good Filipina tail. However, even if this isn't a focus for your trip it's still a great place to stop by if you want to chill out a bit away from some of the big cities.

One thing to keep in mind that in this place of the country, being polite and respectful is very important if you want to get good women. The bad boy vibe doesn't tend to work too well in rural areas.

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Davao City

Davao City is by far one of the safest cities you can visit down South. It is located in Mindanao but is also home to several thousands of foreigners, which mean that the location is very liberal and the girls have better English than most of the other cities.

While it is a very big city, even considered as the biggest city in the country in terms of land area, it does not have that overly metropolitan feel in most bigger cities. Therefore, you can still expect a combination of urban and rural life. There are beaches that you can enjoy visiting, especially if you go to Samal Island.

With regard to women, you can find some of the nicest girls in this part of the country. Generally more traditional and conservative, but they are very friendly to foreign men. Giving your number to them may not be a problem at all. Just watch out for Muslim women who are also residents in the city as they are generally not that open to these types of arrangements.

Baguio City is a great place to meet Filipino women

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You can also choose to explore up north and visit Baguio City. It is a city in the Philippines with the lowest temperature, perfect if you want to escape the warmth of other cities. Women here are foreigner friendly, and you might even see a lot of Westerners settling down with their Filipina wives here (not that that is what we are here for).

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As a rural city, you can expect that the girls here are timid, and may not be that open when it comes to talking with a foreigner in public. Therefore, you might have to earn his or her trust first before making ‘the’ move. Of course, there are still some bars and nightclubs in the area that you can frequent and meet gorgeous ladies working there, or even meeting party goers who are more open-minded than others.

Overall, though, you'll find it a little harder than some of other cities.

Like with all Filipino cities, respecting the ladies you meet anywhere, whether, in cafes, malls or on the street is very important in provincial areas such as Baguio City. Therefore, be polite and you can expect to be treated well in return - especially since the women here are more conservative and take more time to warm up to you.

Dumaguete City

This is one of the best places to travel as a traveling white guy! The stereotype for Dumaguete City is that there are a TON of nice people. Yes, it is just a small, rural city, but the people here are amazing. You can simply walk on the streets smiling to people, and you can expect some smiles back. This is good if you are looking to meet Filipinas, as they are very friendly.

The biggest thing to note is University Belt. As such, you can meet a lot of students, most of them not from this island. The university girls in the Philippines may not go on the same slut rampage as girls in the US do, but they are still definitely a lot easier than the average Filipina. In a city where most of the people are pretty conservative, getting some college tail is an easy way to get laid.

Of course, since they're in college they're a little younger (late teens, early 20's), but honestly most Filipinas look so young you probably won't even notice.

Other than the University belt, there are several local cafes that you can visit. Another great way to meet women in this city is to take a stroll at the city’s boulevard in the afternoon. Since people here tend to be very friendly it is easy to strike up a conversation.​

There are also other destinations that you can visit just 10-20 minutes from the city proper if you are interested in water activities, and other similar adventures.​


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The Philippines is surely a man’s haven. Filipinas, in general, are very open in terms of having relationships with foreign men. Just a note, however, aside from the culture, ladies from the Philippines have this connotation that all foreigners are rich people. Therefore, it is very important to be alert to any hints of potential risks and dangers, such as when a woman starts asking for money for different reasons.

While you can easily fly over to the Philippines and meet gorgeous girls, it would also be nice to meet them before visiting. How so? There are a lot of online dating sites these days where you can meet Filipina women such as FilipinoCupid. This will allow you to make arrangements to meet them in person during your visit.

25 Replies to “Best Cities to Meet Filipinas (meet Filipino women)”

  1. Thank you for taking the time to write that article. Very helpful comments and gives a good insight into the different areas.

  2. Greetings gents:

    I’ve been to the Philippines four times to vacation in 2012 and 2016/17 to get a feel for how/where to find a quality girlfriend, as I don’t want to play around or get re-married anytime soon, but have the time and resources to travel.

    I have had profiles on Cherry Blossoms, Phillipino Cupid, Christian Phillipina and other sites. On most sites, you will find a combination of scammers and nice girls. The telltale sign of a good girl is that she won’t ask for money and will insist that you meet her family. In other words, autonomy and sad stories followed by a request for help are a BAD sign.

    I’ve visited: Manilla, Cebu, Palawan, Davao and a bunch of smaller towns. I tend to gravitate towards Cebu as a home base as there are direct flights from the USA and a lot of things one can do within an hours ride, or you can easily catch a local flight/boat ride to other islands to continue the adventure.

    In my book, the best looking girls as a percentage happen to live in the most dangerous place – Zamboanga. But beware as traveling there can be a risky venture due to geo-political tensions.

    Like many of the “expat” comments, I agree that malls can be a decent place to meet nice girls, as well as most any other place. The key to success is to be patient, complimentary and respectful.

    In the end, I found that the girls from the province where the best for me because they are simple, humble and accommodating. The hard part is finding them, which you can do on websites by using your large head – but they don’t play around and don’t ever ask for “camera favors”. Once you commit, stop the searching or you will be tap dancing before you know it. Most ladies are very good at the “is he for real”screening process and will even network with one of your “others” to uncover you if you are playing the field.

    My girlfriend of three months lives just outside Cebu in the province or what we would call rural hillside. The roads there are a dusty bumpy mess. I am 55 and she is 31, and that works just fine for both of us. She still lives with her family which is extremely close and friendly towards me.

    Despite living conditions that would make most of us do a u-turn, they are a happy bunch with no hot water, no car, no air conditioning. In fact, to get to their home, the only option is to walk down a winding path through the hillside for fifteen minutes. Religious values play a huge role in their decision making process, which must be honored if you seek a good-girl.

    I would be remiss if I didn’t mention how popular and fun karaoke is in the Philippines. Most Phillipinos are very friendly and speak English, but learning some basic Tagalog is recommended, especially if you are venturing into remote villages. Flight and traffic delays, poverty and filth are also part of the experience there, but the benefits far outweigh the negatives.



        1. So far, so good. She (like most of the girls from the province) is very simple, grateful and agreeable. What a refreshing change.

          The most challenging part is having to travel half way around the globe to visit and manage our Skype communications with a 12-13 hour time difference.

          My learning curve is certainly not complete. I had to figure out how to manage her rare bad moods, which they call something like “tampo.” Basically, when the ladies are not happy with something that you may have said or done, the go-to response is to shut down and not talk, which can be frustrating. The go-to solution is always to hug, apologize and just wait it out. Don’t expect an open discussion to work. Logic is irrelevant during these times with TLC being your best ally.


    1. Hi DFG. it was interesting reading your article. I want to go to the Philppines for the first time. Are you based in the UK? I am 52 and want to go there for some fun but also to find a partner. Is there a good time to go there? Festivals etc? Wheres best to go as Im travelling alone? Would rather be out there with someone who knows the ropes. Is Cebu safe? I dont like places too touristy. Hope you can give me some good advice. Best Wishes CP

      1. Hello,

        I would recommend planning a trip to Cebu (CEB) at least a month out if possible, so you can begin the screening process. This way, you can narrow down your search to the Cebu area and line up one meet and greet or two in advance of your arrival. The Ayala mall is big and modern, so lots to do there, plus you might just meet a nice girl there as it is packed with cute ladies.

        You can book a very nice hotel across from the mall and next to the IT Park for about $45 USD a night such as Quest Cebu Hotel or try Red Planet for about $25 if you are on a stricter budget.

        This area is safe but always use common sense. As far as festivals go, there are many holidays there but I wouldn’t recommend planning your trip around them. Just plan it around your schedule and go. There are a lot of things to do there, and you will love it, especially after you have made a connection with a nice girl.

        Phillipina girls like a man who is not grossly overweight, poorly dressed or groomed. If you are clean shaven, wearing slacks or shorts with a polo shirt and are in happy state of mind, things will flow nicely for you there – even if you are portly. Also, you should be assertive when the time calls for it as you will be given plenty of clues that you will have to act on.


  3. Can you specify which city to find and meet serious filipino women? Those who arent just playing around. Thanks!

  4. It is now my stated goal in life to visit the Philippines!
    I’m from MIAMI, FL. While there are very pretty girls to look at here, the only thing they care about is how much you have.

    In other words, if you have a boat and a big bag of coke, you’re attractive to these females. But if you are just a respectful man who drives a Hyundai, like me, you are NOT attractive to them.

    They are also, inexplicably attracted to losers who cant function in any way without their help. If I quit my job, crashed my car, lost my phone and started wearing a baseball cap, SIDEWAYS, I’d probably get laid a lot more.

    The Philippines sounds like PARADISE!
    I once had a goal to go to Thailand, but they have a VERY bad AIDS problen there, plus I want more than just hookers!
    I’d really like to go to a place where the women are nice to men.

    American females have serious entitlenent issues! All they seem to do is sit around taking selfies of their asses to show off. Its sickening.

    Thank you for the info!! Very useful! I’M GOING!!

  5. I would like to meet a nice girl in Cebu City. What is a good travel budget to visit the Philipines for two weeks?

    1. I was there in June and going back in October. Picked up October airline ticket to Cebu for 660 and hotel for 30 bucks a night. So 2 weeks can be done for 1500 but if you want to date around (my girl lives there so I just hang with her) add another 500.

  6. A lot of garbage is talked about on websites about all this. I am in Cebu City at the moment. It is teaming with pretty college students and none of them are to be seen with foreigners. They get bot friends from the friends they make at college the same way pretty girls do all over the world. So much garbage about going to shopping malls, you see foreigners lurking around in these places hoping for a conversation with s pretty girl that never happens. Sure at Alaya mall, you will see foreigners in conversations with local women, but they are 100% not the pretty girls, who hang about with their boyfriends who look like yet to start shaving adolescents. I have met five girls thus far from one of the largest dating sites and all of them were incredibly ugly. In fact, they were a good representation of the kind of woman you will typically see a foreigner with.

    1. John sounds like a Filipino upset at foreigners for stealing away all the nice Filipino girls. Filipinas are very pragmatic and will choose a foreigner over a Filipino most of the time as long as a foreigner can provide for their future family. Listen to what these girls have to say in these two videos and you will understand why it is easy for a foreigner to meet and date girls in the Philippines.
      Part 1 – Starts at mark 3:18 min to 15:35, then again from mark 25:00 min to 28:40

      (please ignore the racist propaganda for a pure Filipino race found in between)
      Part 2 – From the beginning up to mark 15:00min.

      Part 1 shows the responses from girls from poor areas while part 2, responses of working girls and university students.

    2. Gents,

      I like Ayala mall a lot. Scores of young ladies, good food choices, movie theaters, etc., BUT I wouldn’t rely on it as a go-to resource. Much better to meet/bring your date to Alaya and enjoy the activities there.

      Like anywhere, the college age and younger girls are whimsical and not really interested or compatable with an older fellow – so really just better to enjoy with the eyes and move on.

      There are however, plenty of ladies from the mid-twenties to mid-thirties who will have an interest and maturity. Some you will see as attractive and others not…and vice versa.

      In the haze of hunting for a single sweet and attractive companion, it’s easy to keep forgetting that we are looking through many potential candidates but only shopping for one – kinda like looking for the best apple in a endless bin of apples.

      That said, the best approach is the stop wasting time on the not-so-good candidates and scratching your head when you see a photo-shopped picture that doesn’t match the others in her profile.

      Focus on one or two ladies that you have either meet in person or video chatted with – ones who you deem reliable, honest and attractive. Trust your gut here..and don’t consult Uncle Wigley – he’ll be plenty happy later – trust me.

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  8. I’m now not certain where you are getting your info, but great topic. I needs to spend some time learning much more or figuring out more. Thanks for excellent info I used to be on the lookout for this information for my mission.

  9. I think you can find a nice filipina mostly in visayas area. Their feature are more on latina because of strong influences of spanish. This are the 4 major cities in visayas you might find a right girl for you. Cebu is a metro city where women a mix of conservative and sassy. Dumaguete city is a rural city with conservative but outgoing ladies. Iloilo city with a warm and their local dialects may you find fascinating. Bacolod city where the city of smiles conservative but know what they want ladies and very soft spoken. I hope this will help you find your right partner in the future.

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