5. Your Follow-Up Game is Lame
Messaging is an art form. It's not easy; I won't lie. Girls love attention and need to be entertained. Once she's hooked, you can stick to simple questions, but it can be hard to get to that point with some chicks. You have to get her in conversation without asking too many questions. The fortune is in the follow-up!! Here are some great tips. So here are my two rules:
- Try not to ask questions when you can make a comment. For example, don't say, "That's a cute dog. What kind is he?", say, "I would so steal you dog. He'd like me more than you." You're still talking about your dog, but now it's flirty and not just questions. After a little banter, you can ask what kind of dog it is (if you have to).
- Ask questions that you need to know. You don't need to know how her day is going. You've never met her. Why do you care if she's having a shit day or the best day of her life? You do need to know, "What part of town do you live in?" and "What are you looking for on here?" The answers to these questions will lead you to actually meeting up down the road.
7. You Play It Too Cool
Playing it too cool is the opposite of being too chatty. You have to show some vulnerability. You have to put yourself out there a little bit. This means you'll have to ask her some questions and make an attempt to relate to her as a human being. We can help, check this out.
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There's no need to be a hard ass while on Tinder. Flirt and have fun, just avoid coming off as needy. It'll take some practice, but you'll find that fine line soon enough. Don't overthink it. You'll naturally get there as you talk to more women on Tinder.
Just remember, it's not an app for messaging. It's an app to get laid. Use Tinder, get her #, meet up, and get laid. It's as easy as that.
If you have no Tinder matches, it could just be your location. Tinder is ass in many places. In other places, you can have sex with a new girl every day using Tinder. If you're a man in his twenties living in a city under one million people, you're doing yourself a grave disservice.
Many men (like Rob) continually lament how a man shoots himself in the foot by living in small towns and cities. If you're a single man living in the suburbs, you're literally shooting yourself in the foot from a sexual standpoint. Move! Live in a shitty studio next to the bars. Get some roommates in the restaurant district. Do whatever it takes to live in a decent sized city.
Needless to say this is pretty hard to get around. Obviously not everyone can just move whenever they want. However, you'll definitely want to expand the radius more than normal. Our "Traveling with Tinder" can help you "get out of the box" and into a strangers bed.
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- This goes back to the city thing. If you cannot walk to bars from your home, you've already lost half the battle. We don't have to discuss how alcohol is essentially sex fuel for winners. You know how to win. Get drunk with her. Bait her back home. The last step is very important. Particularly the bait bit.
Throw on some smooth tunes. Pour her a glass of wine. Whip your dick out. It's not complex, gents. In fact, you might as well write this down and repeat it to yourself 10 times every morning.
I hear stories of guys living in butt fuck Egypt and wonder why they can't get laid. It's not you - it's your city and logistics. This guide can help you become more comfortable outside your home turf.
The Tinder algorithm is a complex son of a bitch. I won't sit here fronting like I know exactly how it works. I will say that if you don't use the app for a couple of days (up to a week), you'll probably get more matches the next time you start swiping.
If you don't use the app for a couple of weeks, you'll be so far down the match results that you may never get seen by girls in your area. If you want more Tinder matches, make it a rule to use the app every 1-3 days. Otherwise, your profile will rot, decay, and it will no longer be shown to the women we're trying so hard to get in bed.