Throughout my travels, I’ve met a number of people. Men and women – and the vast majority of them want to get laid. Some individuals I’ve interacted with can be blatant about this desire to copulate. While many others, especially females, can be a bit more subtle with regards to their reproductive urges. However, the truth remains that we all just want a good shag here and there.
While most men fall into the “I need to fuck” category, I’ve also met some men who acted in a manner that perplexed me. They clearly wanted to get laid, but it was on a purely intellectual level. They felt no biological drive to inseminate the loins of the cute girl standing next to them. Instead, these men loved to talk about “game” and shit. They loved the idea of being a player, yet the actual act of being a playboy was strictly verbal.
After meeting a few of these men, I began to get confused. I couldn’t understand why these men could approach, get numbers, line up dates, go on dates – and still not get laid. These men treated women like a chess game, while I was sitting around throwing up ads on Craigslist and fucking fake titied MILFs with ease.
Did These Men Actually Want To Get Laid?
I started to figure out the problem. Once I notice the trend, the underlying problem wasn’t hard to see. These men loved the idea of being a suave international playboy who seduced scores of stunning foreign women. These men didn’t actually love to fuck scores of hot women. NO! The ideal was what they wanted. They romanticized the notion of the playboy lifestyle, without realizing the real playboys really fuck a lot of women.
Why Are You Talking To Her?
Once I figured out how some of these men operate, I began to watch some of their interactions with the opposite sex. I wanted to see where things may have gone wrong. And it all came back to one thing – sexual intent. I noticed these men talking to women without actually possessing the desire to have copious amounts of intercourse with her. A man will go out on a date or he will be in a bar or he will be on the streets – and he will be talking to a woman. She may laugh. She probably smiles. Hell, she may even twirl her hair a bit. Yet, these men are more interested in conversation than copulation.
I’m talking about men who go out and spit “game” for the sake of spitting game. They have no ache in their balls to fuck her as fast as possible. These men aren’t talking to her because they want to take her to the bathroom in 15 minutes and shove his cock down her throat before bending her over the toilet seat, ramming his dick deep inside her and cumming all over her ass crack. No. These men are talking to women because of some intellectual need to be a player or have hot girls around. The potential actual act of sex is just a secondary by-product of spitting good “game” and having enjoyable conversations. Yet, this is completely ass backwards thinking.
Why Are You Talking To Her & Why Your Aren’t Getting Laid
The only reason you should be talking to her is that you want to fuck her. Soon and hard. You’re out on a date with her tonight because you’re horny and want to fuck her. You approached her at the bar because you’ve had a half-chub all day and just can’t seem to get rid of it. You ran after her on the streets because you instantly felt something happen between your legs when you saw her.
You don’t take her on a date because she seems like a nice girl and is fun to talk to. You don’t go up and talk to her at the bar because she seems like a friendly, fun girl. You’re not running her down on the streets just for shits and giggles. Fuck no. You should be talking to these girls because you want to fuck them. There is no other reason. All that “practice makes perfect” shit is non-sense. You know deep down that any “practice” approach is waste of time. The girl you’re practicing on probably doesn’t even want to fuck you because your not showing any sexual intent.
Sexual Intent Is Easy
Attraction begets attraction. This means that sexual intent begets sexual intent. If you feel the drive to fuck her, she will often begin to feel the exact same way about you. If you want to make sweet love to sexy women, you HAVE to show sexual intent. You can’t just ramble on about endless bullshit and not feel any tug to touch or kiss her. Let your penis be your guide. She will pick up on your intent quickly and it will arouse her. You could be talking about mundane shit like your brothers and sister, the last book you read or your favorite stuffed animals as children – and if you are looking at her with strong sexual intent, she will notice and often become aroused.
I’m not saying you should talk dirty with her, escalate incredibly fast or ignore social cues. Not at all. You can show sexual intent without acting like a predator looking for his next kill. You don’t have to be weird about this shit. However, if you are talking to a woman you find sexually attractive and you want to have sex with her – she should know this, on an instinctual level. She should look into your eyes and feel your desire for her. Your smile should be of the “shit-eating-grin” variety, one that shows you want to do horrid things to her body soon. Your touch should be purposeful, yet playful – beginning with teasing playful touches before you begin to take things more sensual.
If you don’t know how to drum up your sexual intent, you only have to do one thing. While within a mundane conversation with your chick, you begin to think about fucking her brains out. Let your mind dive deep into the fantasy, as you continue the conversation. Soon, she’ll begin to notice you have a different look. You eyes will become of the “bedroom” variety. The tone of your voice will change to a deeper, darker voice. Your grin will turn to a smirk. Your movements will begin to slow down. You should have touched her by now. Keep replaying the fantasy and let it guide you. If you have an ounce of testosterone in your body, your mind will begin to imagine ways to get this girl back to your bedroom.
So…Why Are You Talking To Her?
The next time you’re about to go holler at the cutie in the bar or on the streets think to yourself, “Why are you talking to her?” before you make your move. If your answer is due to any form of penal movement resulting from an innate desire to bone her – go spit your game. If you want to talk with her because of “game” or being a playboy or some other mundane homoerotica bullshit – ignore the bitch. Your wasting her time, and yours.