This is guest post about Bali girls is from Rush Fresh.
You landed in Denpasar ready to surf, scuba dive, or just enjoy the beautiful beaches and nature of Bali. You will have met plenty of tourists like yourself from Australia and Sweden, but you’re ready to try some of the local flavours. Interestingly enough, you didn’t see too many Balinese girls lying in the sand and splashing in the ocean. You went out to the discos and bars at night with the same results, nothing but foreigners getting sloshed off of the cheap booze and some even tripping from magic mushrooms offered at every street corner. No real Bali girls.
You’re disappointed and have no idea what to do, but can’t leave without getting a full taste of what the island has to offer. Here’s what you should know: First of all, Balinese women are shorter than those in the West. Although shapes vary, it’s not surprising to see disproportionately large breasts and butts on someone their size. They may not come close to Colombian women in comparison, but you’ll be pleasantly surprised by what’s hiding under that shirt and tight jeans. The skin tone of women in this region varies from darker to lighter shades, but most meet in the middle with a honey-caramel/ hazelnut colour. I promise they’ll be plenty of beautiful Bali girls.
Petit bodies, but cute faces are a little harder to come by. Once in a while, you’ll encounter the top echelon Bali girls – absolute stunners with light pale skin (usually from upper class). They’ll be almost impossible to date casually as a tourist, one has to be an expat working or living in Bali for a prolonged period of time and have air-tight game. Perhaps one of the most pleasant qualities of Balinese women is that they generally have beautiful smiles and a positive attitude. Even though they are very feminine, sweet, and smiley – there is a hint of crazy in the mix, especially when dating and dealing with foreigners.
How to Meet Bali Girls
Now that you know what Balinese girls are like, you’re intrigued and wouldn’t mind a little ‘sweet and crazy’ in your life, so how do you find them? One think that’s crucial to understand is that Balinese women LOVE shopping; they’ll go to the malls all the time, whether actually buying something or just window shopping. Therefore, for day game hitting up the malls is one of your best bets. The girls will often be in a group of two or more, but you’ll find that works to your advantage since they’ll be less distrusting of foreigners than they would be one-on-one.
On a side note, although distrust for tourists exists and comes from bad past experiences or stories, it doesn’t stop the local girls from being drawn to lighter skin from foreign lands. As in most places around the world, WhatsApp is massively popular and should be sufficient to grab some digits.
Paying an extra $5-$10 per night for a place with a swimming pool is a good investment, and also, something that can be used as bait or reason to come back to the crib in the future. It’s rare to pull girls back right away from day gaming, but arranging to meet for drinks later shouldn’t be too difficult. Also important to note that the girls will expect you to pay since the local salaries are quite small, this might help you avoid any awkward situation when the bill comes.
As for night game, the clubbing scene in Bali is one of the best in the region. There is large selection in bars and clubs, ranging from cheap spots to pre-drink to ultra-chic beach clubs and resorts. You are more likely to meet local girls in places that don’t charge an entrance fee, as even $10 can be too much for them. Once again you may end up paying for drinks, just make sure not to be the sucker buying rounds for her whole groups of friends all night. You may also encounter some resistance when trying to extract, but proper screening will save you a lot of trouble.
The higher end clubs with entrance fees will have significantly better quality, with the Bali girls looking their best in high heels and tiny skirts. Some will be straightforward and approach foreigners first – expect to be buying the drinks as always. Be wary as some of them may be prostitutes, which is especially prevalent in the night scene in Kuta. Interestingly enough, the good looking local girls at these high-end clubs may not be hookers, but will still try to get money out of you.
It’s weird and doesn’t always make sense, but you’ll know they’re not hookers when you end up closing the deal anyway with solid game and not having them mention money again. With entrance fees and drinks at such venues one can expect to spend at least $20-$30 in a night; for the locals that can be the equivalent of a week’s salary, so the girls try to recoup some of their costs even though they still go out wanting to genuinely meet foreigners. If the night is not a success, one can always resort to paying for sexual services as little as $50(P.S.: NOT recommended by editor), although it’s not recommended as these Bali girls are usually controlled by gangs.
For those that want to put minimal effort in dating Balinese girls, Tinder is also an option (shameless plug here). It’s especially popular among locals looking to meet foreign guys, so the screening process becomes that much easier. One of the first questions you may encounter is about the length of your stay. Since local Bali girls prefer dating long term (perhaps hoping that a wealthy foreigner will get them out of poverty), it is best to give an honest answer if visiting for a while. Or you can give an open-ended response with a glimmer of hope. English proficiency of girls on Tinder may not be as good as the ones at clubs and bars among the tourists, but most will know enough to hold a conversation.
Dating Bali Girls
Conversion on the first date may also be more difficult, but meeting for a drink or two beforehand in a public place will ease a lot of the tension. Once in a while, you’ll encounter girls who’ll come over and get right into it, without even needing any alcohol. It’s crucial to find out the logistics so if the girl isn’t driving or lives within walking distance, offer to meet her outside and pay for the cab –it will eliminate more than half of the flakes.
On the flip side from what’s become common in the Western world, Balinese girls don’t seem to have mastered the art of the selfie yet. Hence, you may be pleasantly surprised when they turn out better in person than they did in pictures. At the very least, you’ll get exactly what you were expecting from her pictures. It’s also quite common to keep getting messages from Tinder girls after they’ve put out, hoping to meet again and potentially date long term.
If honesty is your policy and you admit to only be looking for a one time deal, you’re likely to experience the crazy side of Bali girls mentioned earlier. This includes non-stop messaging, phone calls, and unpleasant slurs comparing you to all the other shameless tourists, followed by sweet and innocent pleas for another date.
Balinese Girls Overall
Overall, day gaming at malls and Tinder among locals are both solid and relatively effortless options. The top class women are better found in high-end venues. Be wary of girls for hire, but learn to distinguish them from good looking locals simply trying to recover their expenses for the night – as one will give you a price up front while the other may ask for some money after the deal is sealed.
Solid frame and good game will get you a long way; even if you get no luck with locals, there are plenty of tourist girls looking for some fun away from the judgements of their friends back home. In any case, getting laid in Bali shouldn’t be tough even for the average guy although trying the local flavours is highly recommended, and dealing with a little bit of crazy is well worth it to experience the sweet and feminine.